Addiction - Damn, You Are Lucky!!!

Nate Herlean

Addiction - Damn, You Are Lucky!!!

Here I goooooo - (anyone who has done the path knows)


In every life story, there's a chapter filled with hardships and struggles. But what if I told you that these challenges are not obstacles but opportunities???? (promise) This mindset shift is the cornerstone of resilience, and it's a perspective I, Nate, have cultivated through my journey.



From battling PTSD and alcohol addiction to founding Ultimate Addiction Resource, building Holding Doors, and supporting countless individuals, I've learned that challenges are the seeds of personal growth and achievement.


Challenges are Opportunities


It's easy to see challenges as roadblocks, but what if we viewed them differently? Each difficulty you face is a chance to learn, grow, and become stronger. Whether it's overcoming addiction or supporting a loved one through their recovery, every struggle teaches valuable lessons and builds resilience.


Embracing challenges transforms them from daunting obstacles into opportunities for personal development. I tell all my clients that chaos and problems will NEVER go away... but we will walk through them with ease. 


Hell, you have walked through addiction... I promise you, nothing will be more difficult in your life, but with a good guide, we can make that hard, EASY!


Personal Development Through Hardships


Life's hardships are like a forge, shaping and strengthening us. The process might be painful, but it's through this struggle that we discover our true capabilities. When I faced my battles with addiction, it wasn't just about getting clean. It was about understanding myself, confronting my fears, and emerging stronger. Every step in this journey, no matter how tough, added to my strength and resilience.


Encouragement to Embrace Hardships


So, how do we embrace these hardships?


First, acknowledge that difficulties are a natural part of life AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE SOBER OR NOT!!!! They are not signs of failure but stepping stones to success. Look at your challenges with curiosity, love, and determination. What can you learn from this? How can it make you better? When you approach hardships with this mindset, they become less intimidating and more manageable.


For instance, if you're struggling with addiction, view it as a journey of self-discovery. Overcoming it will propel you forward in family, finances, fitness, health, passion, drive, faith, and work ethic... If you're supporting a loved one, view it as an opportunity to develop deeper empathy and patience. Each challenge, when embraced, brings you closer to your goals and shapes you into a stronger, more capable person.


Why I Get Excited for My Clients


Many of my clients at Holding Doors initially get turned off because I am genuinely excited for them. This is a huge challenge hitting them in the face, but the upside is tenfold. That's why I struggle not to be happy for them. I see the immense potential for growth and transformation that lies ahead. I am grateful for my addiction EVERY FUCKING DAY!!!


I understand that the journey will be tough, but I also know that the rewards are beyond measure. This excitement stems from knowing firsthand how powerful and life-changing this journey can be.


The path to personal achievement is paved with challenges. Embrace them, learn from them, and let them guide you to success. Remember, achievement comes not despite our challenges, but because of them. View your addiction or your role in supporting someone with addiction as a significant, transformative challenge. Embrace it, love it, and see how cool it is to emerge on the other side, stronger and more resilient.


So, take a deep breath, face your challenges head-on, and know that each step forward is a step towards becoming the best version of yourself. Embrace the journey, and let your resilience shine.


Damn, you are lucky to have this opportunity to transform and grow. Let's walk this path to recovery together.



A very special thanks to The Liver Brand (I am so personally grateful for what you have done for my clients and family!) I love your mission and your why!!!!



*This is a recovery/health coaching education service only. It is not, and is not intended to be, medical treatment or recommendations for medical treatment. Actual medical treatment must come from your physician. Telephone or video consultations do not replace the need for seeing a doctor in person. Holding Doors recovery educators and coaches cannot diagnose or prescribe medications, treatment, or testing procedures. Holding Doors recovery educators and coaches can provide general information that may need to be reviewed and approved by that person’s own physician. Consultations are not considered to be medical advice or diagnosis. Payments are refundable; if you reschedule with 24 hours' notice, your payment will be transferred in full to your new appointment. The cost of Holding Doors recovery education and coaching services is not covered by health insurance or Medicare



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